Home for Thanksgiving? Save a Night for a Hookup
Find a casual hookup with horny women near where you’re staying before you head back to the city.
Your mom asks if you’re seeing anybody before you’ve even set your bag down. Hell, you’d settle for seeing somebody Friday night.
You’ve been gone a year. The bar you used to hate has a heated patio now, and a woman you’ve never seen before keeps looking over. Then one of the same three guys from high school says, “We’re leaving. You coming?” You go.
Come Sunday, you’re shoving a foil pan into the trunk and wondering why the hell you never went back.
Pick one night for yourself. Look for women near where you’re staying, and start talking before that night comes around.
You can catch up with the guys on Wednesday. If Friday’s yours, give yourself a shot at spending it with someone you’d be happy to miss last call for.
Pick a Night Before Your Family Picks It for You
For Thanksgiving hookups, work backward from when you leave. Driving back Sunday morning? Friday gives you Saturday as a backup. Leaving Monday? Sunday night works if you’ve still got the energy and she’s free.
Then pick the part of town where you can actually meet. If you’re staying with your folks but already going downtown Friday, look downtown. If the thought of crossing town after dinner makes you want to stay on the couch, look closer to the house.
A year away is long enough for new women to move in and old faces to leave. Some women you’ve never met are back visiting their families, too. She might want the same thing you do: a drink, a good fuck if you hit it off, and no plans to check in once you’re both back at work.
If you’re free Friday after eight, say Friday after eight. Every time you tell someone “maybe later,” you give her a good reason to make other plans. Look for someone near where you’ll be and see if your evenings line up. It’s a hell of a lot easier to flirt when you’ve both got an idea of when you can see each other.
Thanksgiving Eve Hookups or a Meetup After Dinner?
Wednesday: If you roll into town early, drop your bag and go out. Catch up with your friends if you want, but give yourself time to meet her separately. A quick hello before your buddy starts yelling that he called the ride is a lousy first meeting.
Thursday: If dinner’s at two and you’re usually out by seven, offer a time you know you can make. If your brother’s in charge of bringing the turkey and nobody’s heard from him since noon, make Friday plans.
Black Friday Hookups: Do a Little Window Shopping
You spent the morning at the outlets buying a TV you didn’t need. Tonight, do a little window-shopping on the hookup site. If you’re already wondering what a local whore charges, you took the shopping joke a little too literally.
Browse a few profiles and message a woman who catches your eye. She gets to window-shop, too. If she likes what she sees, ask what she’s doing after the stores close.
If she’s shopping with her sister, suggest somewhere near the outlets once they’re done. If she’s closing the store, give her time to get home and change before you suggest a drink. Ask about Saturday if Friday’s shot and you’re both still around. For Thanksgiving weekend hookups, that extra night is worth having.
Tell Her When You’re Leaving
If you’ve been flirting, say when you head back and what you’re looking for. Keep it short. You’re asking her out, and she can decide if one night suits her, too.
Say she’s already mentioned she likes the bar on Main.
You: Back in town till Sunday. I’m up for something casual. Drink at the place on Main Friday around eight?
Her: Friday’s a mess. I could do Saturday after seven.
You: Saturday works. Same place at eight?
She gave you a time she could make. If all you get is “I’ll let you know,” go enjoy your evening. You can want to get laid without keeping the whole damn night on hold.
That’s what I like about the Snow White story from Halloween. He stood across the kitchen until she looked his way again. Then he actually went over. This weekend, if she’s flirting back and you know when you’re free, that’s your cue to ask.
Thanksgiving Hookup FAQ
Can I find a hookup on Thanksgiving if I’m only home for one night?
Yes. Look close to where you’ll be and start talking before you arrive if you can. Tell her which night you’re free early in the conversation.
Should I look near my hometown or where I’m staying?
Look near wherever you’ll spend the evening. If you’re sleeping twenty minutes outside town but already going downtown Friday, look downtown. If you’ll be out by your parents’ place all night, start there.
Is it weird to look for a hookup when you’re home with family?
No. Enjoy dinner with your family and make your own plans for the evening. If you’re staying with relatives, think about where you could meet before inviting anyone over.
Give Yourself One Night Before You Head Back
If you’ll be back for Christmas or New Year’s Eve, remember how fast this trip fills up. Start talking before everybody’s evening is spoken for.
For this weekend, ask her about the night you’ve got. If there’s nobody you’re talking to yet, see who’s around while you’re home. When your mom asks what you’re doing Friday, you might actually have an answer this year.
John Miller has been running seminars and private coaching for years. He built a no-bullshit repeatable system for fucking new women consistently. No theory, just what actually works in the field.
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